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Posts tagged “Sari

Shopping For Saris

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Next Wednesday is Dalila’s birthday.

Yesterday Anu and I went across to the mainland, ostensibly to buy fabrics to re-cover the diwan and dining room chairs.

In reality, Dalila’s birthday pressed heavily on our minds. We were acutely aware of past inadequacies and humiliations.

With skilled help, Anu and I both felt the only way was up.

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Kalyan Silks sells the best textiles in Cochin and has two floors devoted to saris.

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But I had failed to think it through:  Two floors devoted to saris.

We were totally overwhelmed.

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Beautiful, elegant and amused, female shop assistants ask if they can help.


– Who are we buying for? A bride?-

– No. Our wonderful cook –

– How old is she? –

Anu is flummoxed. But I have many years of professional training behind me and flatter myself into thinking I’m a shrewd judge of age.

(I also know the age of her sons.)

I hazard an expert opinion.

We are led to countless rows of saris, deemed suitable for Dalila. As an act of charity, a male shop assistant is summoned to help us out.

I choose a sari for Dalila. Anu chooses his gift.

We are almost finished but I know that every sari has a dedicated choli.

The material fortunately includes its matching length for a top.

– You want a blouse lining? –

Um..

– This material is see through –

Yes. We need a blouse lining.

– You want a skirt lining? –

Definitely!

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Trust me:

After this, choosing soft furnishings is a doddle.

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Photographs taken by me in Kalyan Silks. Art work taken, without permission, from the Kalyan Silks website